Whipping Up a Prayer for Thanksgiving
Have you made all your preparations for this Thursday? Have your grocery shopping done? Have your travel itinerary set? Have the guest room cleaned and pillows fluffed? Feeling stressed yet?
My Thanksgiving stress points are not triggered by fears of getting enough white meat, being done with the meal before the football game, or having to face some hard to get along with family members, my Thanksgiving stress point, ironically, is being called upon to pray before the meal. Even as a pastor who prays publicly about every day the thanksgiving prayer I am called to offer before my family and extended family is a source of stress.
Why do you think the Thanksgiving prayer moment so stressful? Well, it seems to be the most important public prayer we offer during the year and we are afraid of messing it up especially before the entire family.
To avoid the stress of publicly praying before our family, many parents now punt and simply ask one of the kids to pray before the meal rather than risk messing up this sacred moment. But this can backfire as well.
As a pastor
, I want to help you not only pray well in front of your family at the thanksgiving table this year—whipping up a great prayer for thanksgiving if you will, I want to give you the ingredients of prayer that will enable to deepen your conversation with God anytime, anywhere. The ingredients of great prayer can be summed up as the ACTS of prayer (Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, and Supplication).
The first ingredient of prayer is adoration, naming before God an attribute that makes God worthy of prayer. Great prayers begin not with your need; great prayer begins by celebrating who God is. That is adoration.
As you whip up your own prayer, here is just the beginning of attributes you can adore God for: Your love never ends, You grace washes away all our faults, You provide all we need, You never give up on us, You give us eternal life in your Son Jesus, Your give us the Holy Spirit, You heal our hurts and heal our hearts, You pour blessing into all of your lives, You call me your daughter/son… The entire internet is not big enough to list all the divine attributes with God. This is the first ingredient of any prayer.
So a thanksgiving prayer can begin this way by offering a word of adoration. O God, you are the giver of all good gifts.
The next ingredient of a great prayer is C-confession. When we name a perfect attribute of God in adoration, our imperfection in light of God’s perfection cannot be ignored - it needs to be acknowledged and dealt with. Confession is a healthy part of any prayer, not just the prayer of confession before communion or prayers we offer during the season of Lent.
Now, someone maybe thinking “but Doug, its thanksgiving, this is not the time or place to offer confession. Who says? In light of a perfect God is there a perfect family? Even at the Thanksgiving table we can enter into a moment of confession. Maybe the line could go something like this: Forgive us for being so busy with unimportant things that have forgotten how precious a gift our family is.
And when we render to God a confession, privately or publicly, we always offer it with this promise of God in mind, “If we confess our sins, God is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (I John 1:9)
Great prayers are begin with God, adoring God for his divine attributes, it then turns inward in confession, and now the T—thanksgiving. Now we are back to familiar territory. Our psalm for today says it best, “Let them give thanks to the Lord for his great love and for the wonderful things he has done.” (Psalm 107:5)
Every prayer, not just at Thanksgiving, any prayer should include a thanksgiving portion. Prayer creates space for us to look around at your things, your gifts, your relationships, the faith you have in your heart. Every blessing in your life has one thing in common—G-O-D.
We need thanksgiving in our prayers more than ever. So much of our decision making today is driven not by faith but be fear. For too many people the stock market is source of everything good, or your 401K is the source of security in your life. How did we stray so far from orthodox Christianity that tells us God is the one who will care of our needs. If the majority of Americans who claim Christianity as their faith journey were to tell themselves, and believe it again, I wonder how quickly we could move out of economic malaise! We have so much to thank God for! Even at the doorstep of a recession. The market may drop, but God doesn’t drop his eternal promises!
Your thanksgiving prayer can include thanks for the food on your table, and the list of blessings you and your family enjoy. It may look like this: We thank you for our food, our family, and for our faith.
The final ingredient of prayer is S—supplication. Said another way, sharing with God our needs.
As one of the pastors at the Epiphany United Methodist Church, one of the constant feedbacks I hear about worship in this place is the sharing of prayer concerns we do in worship and in our smaller group setting. It just seems natural for our communal life with God. Can you imagine taking a moment in loving vulnerability and sharing your prayer needs as a family? Why not prayer for cousin’s search for a job, grandmother’s battle against disease, your sister’s recent separation. Prayer is not about nicety, and polite society. Prayer is the occasion to boldly approach the throne of God and ask for divine intervention.
This thanksgiving may be the most memorable for your family if you take time in love to offer your family needs and community needs to God in your thanksgiving prayer.
So let’s put it all together: O God, you are the giver of all good gifts. Forgive us for being so busy with unimportant things that have forgotten how precious a gift our family is. We thank you for our food, our family, and for our faith. We pray for (family prayer concerns listed). Hold them close and care for their needs. We pray in the name of Jesus Christ the Lord, Amen.
ACTS of prayer (adoration, confession, thanksgiving, and supplication). Now you have a great start to a Thanksgiving prayer and now you have a great start to a life that is defined by an on-going, passionate, and faithful conversation with the One who is the source of every good in your life and in the world. Amen.
The Rev. Dr. Doug Damron is Senior Pastor at Epiphany United Methodist Church





















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